HEIGHT: 6' | WEIGHT: 165 lbs | NECK: 16 | SUIT: 40R | SLEEVE: 34
WAIST: 31 | Inseam: 32 | HAIR COLOR: Black | EYE COLOR: Brown
Contact: xaviertruesdell@gmail.com
I’m Xavier Lamar Truesdell, known professionally as XL — artist, actor, model, songwriter, producer, broadcaster, and storyteller at heart. I was born in Chicago, Illinois, and my journey in entertainment began early with modeling, TV, film, and music. From debuting on the pilot episode of Las Vegas to appearances in films like Miss Congeniality 2 and Star Trek Into Darkness and on MTV favorites like Parental Control and Punk’d, I’ve pursued my creative passions with commitment and purpose.
As a recording artist, I blend R&B and Pop to tell real stories through sound. My recently released singles “My Endeavor” and “My Mistakes Remix” are now streaming worldwide on all platforms, and I’m thrilled to share that a new EP is coming soon, featuring fresh tracks that reflect heart, resilience, and life lived. I also co-produced my early work with Dem Jointz and continue growing as a creator.
Over the years I’ve worked with brands like Nike, Adidas, Toyota, Pepsi, and more, and I made history as the first African American music director and on-air personality at KOTM-FM. I graduated summa cum laude from the Los Angeles Film School, and today I use my platform to advocate for mental health awareness and emotional wellness — especially in memory of my son, Xaveon. Art, healing, and connection are at the center of everything I do.
In Loving Memory of My Son, Xaveon
As I sit here with streams running down my face, grieving the loss of my beautiful son and all the hopes and dreams I held for his future, I feel the need to speak from my heart to anyone who may be struggling — or who knows someone who is.
I was a young father. We were just kids ourselves — married our senior year of high school, expecting our first child, and trying to figure out life. Xaveon came into this world early, just in time for our graduation. Some times were hard, but I always gave my son the best I could — not just with things, but with my presence, my love, and my time. I was there for every moment I could be outside of work and college. And even through his mental battles, I wouldn't trade any of it for the world. Every memory of him I treasure forever.
From this pain, I want to share a truth that I hope reaches someone in time: No disagreement, no breakup, no argument in a relationship is ever worth ending your life over. Emotional pain is real, but it is also temporary. It’s okay to step back. It’s okay to take space. That doesn’t mean life is over — it means you’re giving yourself a chance to reset and heal.
To all the young people out there: there is always a tomorrow. No matter how dark today feels, tomorrow brings a chance to start fresh — to build, to grow, and to love again. And no matter what you’re facing, you can survive it. You are stronger than you think.
Love is powerful — but the first and greatest kind of love is self-love. You have to know yourself, value yourself, and care for yourself before you can fully be there for someone else.
From experience, I urge you: in your early 20s, take time to find yourself before jumping into serious relationships. That’s not selfish — that’s wisdom. Learn your boundaries. Discover your passions. Understand what you truly want and need. Rushing into love without understanding yourself can lead to pain that could’ve been prevented.
Statistically, young relationships often face challenges due to emotional immaturity, unhealed trauma, or a lack of life experience. That’s not failure — that’s real life. But knowing this now can save you from regret later.
Stay mentally aware. Seek therapy. Talk to someone. Get professional medical help when needed. There is no shame in taking care of your mental health — in fact, it’s one of the bravest things you can do.
And please — if someone in your life is acting off, going silent, posting strange messages, or not seeming like themselves, don’t brush it off. Say something. Check in. Be there. You never know how much your care can save a life.
And if you're the one hurting right now… hold on. Your story isn't over. The world needs you. We need you. We Love You!
Xaveon’s light lives on. His legacy is love.
— Dad
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