HEIGHT: 6' | WEIGHT: 165 lbs | NECK: 16 | SUIT: 40R | SLEEVE: 34
WAIST: 31 | Inseam: 32 | HAIR COLOR: Black | EYE COLOR: Brown
Contact: xaviertruesdell@gmail.com
I’m Xavier Lamar Truesdell, known professionally as XL - artist, actor, model, songwriter, producer, broadcaster, entrepreneur, and storyteller at heart. Born and raised in Chicago, Illinois, my journey in entertainment began early through modeling, television, film, and music. From appearing on the pilot episode of Las Vegas to roles in films such as Miss Congeniality 2 and Star Trek Into Darkness, as well as appearances on MTV favorites like Parental Control and Punk’d, I’ve always pursued my creative passions with dedication, authenticity, and purpose.
As a recording artist, I blend R&B and Pop to tell real stories through music. My recent releases include “My Endeavor,” “My Mistakes Remix,” “Cloudy Weather,” and “Memories of You,” a deeply personal tribute written in loving memory of my son, Xaveon. Through themes of love, loss, perseverance, healing, faith, and hope, I strive to create music that resonates with listeners and reminds them they are not alone in their journey. With a new EP on the horizon, I continue to share music rooted in real-life experiences and emotional connection.
Throughout my career, I’ve had the privilege of working with major brands including Nike, Adidas, Toyota, Pepsi, and many others. I also made history as the first African American Music Director and on-air personality at KOTM-FM. As a graduate of the Los Angeles Film School, where I earned Summa Cum Laude honors, I remain committed to lifelong learning, creativity, and excellence in everything I do.
Today, I use my platform not only to entertain but also to inspire, advocate for mental health awareness, and encourage healing through art and storytelling. The loss of my son has profoundly shaped my perspective and strengthened my mission to create meaningful work that brings comfort, hope, and connection to others. Whether through music, film, broadcasting, or entrepreneurship, my goal is to leave a positive impact and remind people of the power of resilience, love, and purpose.
In Loving Memory of My Son, Xaveon
As I sit here with streams running down my face, grieving the loss of my beautiful son and all the hopes and dreams I held for his future, I feel the need to speak from my heart to anyone who may be struggling — or who knows someone who is.
I was a young father. We were just kids ourselves — married our senior year of high school, expecting our first child, and trying to figure out life. Xaveon came into this world early, just in time for our graduation. Some times were hard, but I always gave my son the best I could — not just with things, but with my presence, my love, and my time. I was there for every moment I could be outside of work and college. And even through his mental battles, I wouldn't trade any of it for the world. Every memory of him I treasure forever.
From this pain, I want to share a truth that I hope reaches someone in time: No disagreement, no breakup, no argument in a relationship is ever worth ending your life over. Emotional pain is real, but it is also temporary. It’s okay to step back. It’s okay to take space. That doesn’t mean life is over — it means you’re giving yourself a chance to reset and heal.
To all the young people out there: there is always a tomorrow. No matter how dark today feels, tomorrow brings a chance to start fresh — to build, to grow, and to love again. And no matter what you’re facing, you can survive it. You are stronger than you think.
Love is powerful — but the first and greatest kind of love is self-love. You have to know yourself, value yourself, and care for yourself before you can fully be there for someone else.
From experience, I urge you: in your early 20s, take time to find yourself before jumping into serious relationships. That’s not selfish — that’s wisdom. Learn your boundaries. Discover your passions. Understand what you truly want and need. Rushing into love without understanding yourself can lead to pain that could’ve been prevented.
Statistically, young relationships often face challenges due to emotional immaturity, unhealed trauma, or a lack of life experience. That’s not failure — that’s real life. But knowing this now can save you from regret later.
Stay mentally aware. Seek therapy. Talk to someone. Get professional medical help when needed. There is no shame in taking care of your mental health — in fact, it’s one of the bravest things you can do.
And please — if someone in your life is acting off, going silent, posting strange messages, or not seeming like themselves, don’t brush it off. Say something. Check in. Be there. You never know how much your care can save a life.
And if you're the one hurting right now… hold on. Your story isn't over. The world needs you. We need you. We Love You!
Xaveon’s light lives on. His legacy is love.
— Dad
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